Why are we scared to lose someone?

 Losing someone is not at all an easy task, so you might sometimes wonder, Why do people always leave me alone? Am I not good enough? Is there something wrong with me? You start questioning your abilities. You doubt yourself. JUST STOP doing this!!!

Losing people on this long life journey is one of the most crucial parts of life. Often, people whose partners leave them for someone else or cheat on them mostly think negative thoughts like suicide or harming themselves. But, dear, that’s not going to change anything. Hurting yourself is like hurting your soul. Your soul is precious to you. Don’t let anyone hurt it. If someone wants to leave your life, let them go. I know it sounds harsh, and it’s not an easy task. It’s difficult to let go of people. BUT, I’m not asking you to let go of the memories you shared together.

Memories can’t be flushed away like a piece of paper. They will stay forever in your mind and heart. You should make yourself strong by controlling your emotions in such a way that they don’t overpower your current life. People come and go. Maybe it’s the first time someone has left you, but it might happen again. Sounds bad, huh? So you’ve got to be ready for every situation.

Learn something from every relationship. Learn something from every person who comes and goes from your life. Learn what you need to learn from those people because this is how you will learn more about yourself. Instead of questioning your abilities, start learning from every experience. You’ll do better!